Why is it that conservatives cry out ‘stop attacking me’ when people begin to question their views or motives? George Bludger comments.
OVER THE PAST YEAR, we’ve had a plethora (of mainly male) conservative politicians and their supporters play the victim when their comments or actions are questioned:
‘What about what people say about me?’ they say; or ‘I am not a racist’; or ‘I have women friends’ and so on. From Alan “her old man recently died… of shame” Jones; to Grahame “kicking her to death” Morris; to Scott “I demand an apology” Morrison; to Tony “she won’t lie down and die” Abbott ― they have an uncanny ability to exist on two parallel universes: the one where they have feelings, spouses, children, loved ones, personal stories and tragedies, sensitivities, hopes and needs; and the other, where they view any opponent as fair game, without these qualities or connections, without regard for their own personal situations and stories, and attack them viciously at all levels.
These Jones’ and Abbott’s & Morris/on’s have vilified seemingly everyone. No one is untouchable, whether it be to win a vote or to make a point. The list is a long one, but includes women, gays, refugees, asylum seekers, ethnic minorities, non-Christians, Indigenous Australians, the lifestyle alternative, the underprivileged, and, in general, anyone that doesn’t fit into the ever shrinking ideal of ‘White Christian Australian’. And it doesn’t stop with individuals – from scientists to economists, from prominent international organisations to world leaders – there is no expert or expert group they will not attack.
The wheels come unstuck with this kind of mindless and destructive attack strategy when people of all political persuasions, and some in the media, say ‘enough is enough’. That line was crossed last week by Alan Jones with his comment “her [Julia Gillard's] old man recently died a few weeks ago of shame” at a Liberal Club fundraiser, and was exacerbated further by his non-apology apology press event. Made even worse was the conga line of Liberal Party politicians and supporters who were all too willing to effectively ignore Jones’ words and indirectly approve Tony Abbott’s silence on the matter.
What followed was even more amusing. The same people throwing the vitriol were now trying to paint themselves as the victims, and their supporters labeling the actual victims as nothing more than political opportunists, or Labor Party sympathisers, or hypocrites. This ‘I feel, you don’t’ mentality is disturbing to say the least.
Some know exactly what they’re doing here. Political commentators like Michael Kroger, the former Liberal Party power broker, was deflecting on Murdoch’s Sky channel a few nights ago, insisting that we look ‘at the other side’, refusing to be drawn on the actual issue at hand ― that the Jones comments were reprehensible and that he [Jones] should be taken off air. Others, I believe, are actually unable or unwilling to see that the cries of condemnation are their own doing.
Take yesterday, where Margie Abbott, Tony’s wife, and daughters, have reluctantly fronted the media to support the idea that Tony Abbott “gets women”. What no one asked (or will) ask Margie Abbott is, “What gives you the impression your husband doesn’t get women?”.
Of course, an even better question would be:
“What public examples can you point to which indicate Tony Abbott is a supporter of women?”
I certainly know of none.
I can however point to countless examples, within and outside of Parliament, in which he speaks to, and about women, in derogatory and dismissive ways. I can point to his association and friendship with men who are so obviously misogynistic (Pell, Jones, Heffernan) and whom he has never condemned, or refused to associate. I can point to his attempts at blocking RU-486, a drug which is a safe and useful alternative to surgical abortion. I can point to his alleged aggressive and violent behaviour towards female opponents during his younger political days at university. And I can point to him standing below “ditch the witch” and “Ju-Liar” signs on several separate occasions while addressing angry and ugly crowds.
That Margie Abbott has found reasons to love and accept Tony Abbott, and vice versa, is not at question. What is at question is Tony Abbott’s inability to see beyond antiquated, highly conservative and, for many, dangerous views on segments of our society, and that Margie Abbott cannot see that the domino effect of these views alone are the cause of the recent outpouring of condemnation towards him and those he associates with. It is unfortunate that Margie Abbott sees her husband only through the prism of her personal and family life, and not through Tony Abbott’s public discourse and political actions.
Ultimately, this is not about whether Tony Abbott “gets women”, or whether he has been unfairly criticised, or whether Margie Abbott is privy to a gentler and kinder Tony. What this sorry saga of relentless attacks (on mainly women) by some in the Liberal Party and their attack dogs reveals is that the likes of Tony Abbott et al have the uncanny ability to serve up personal abuse whilst pretending it is nothing more than part and parcel of everyday political discourse. Margie Abbott would have impressed yesterday if she had come out and said “enough is enough” with the kind of personal abuse her husband and his supporters have been demonstrating, rather than tacitly endorsing it by pretending it doesn’t exist.

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Interesting George, yes credit to Margie for standing by her man. But I just dont think they get it, we do and you expressed it well, and no matter who claims what to the contrary this man is not suitable to be the Prime Minister of Australia. And it must never be allowed to happen.
Nice Job.
Yesterday & today LNPers are doing exactly what I wrote in IA. "I feel, You don't… stop attacking us"
http://t.co/GE5d37uX
Why do we have to keep talking about the thug and giving him endless oxygen though.
The one telling moment, and the one which will really define Abbott’s credentials about his attitude to women will be when Abbott realises that he has lost the next election to Ms Gillard. I sincerely hope that many a television camera is locked on a big close up of his face because that moment will be when the REAL Abbott will come out and it’s a moment I’d gladly pay a million dollars to see.
i think you left heffernan out of the equation too long.
he belongs with the neanderthals you mention in the 1st couple of paragraphs. between his comments to oakeshottes wife over the phone during the 2010 deliberations, his recent abuse of a coalition colleague in a local council meeting and his basic bullheaded overbearing attitude in senate enquiries… the man is another dinosaur.
both major parties have them, but at least the labor ones are smart enough to fly under the radar knowing they’re on a good thing. heffernan et al are too stupid to understand their bullyboy behaviour is outdated, unliked and draws attention to how little they constructively contribute.
i feel sorry for the moderate conservatives and rational liberals who would (and when heard, do) make a valuable contribution to australian discourse, but the coalition seems to attract and reward simple minded fascists and sloganeers. and so these useless people dominate the party.
i look forward to after the next election when turnbull leads the coalition, we can all discuss stuff maturely with the best outcomes in mind no matter WHO comes up with them and try to forget the last 5 or so years of desperate animalism.
Jusme, Please don’t talk about Malcolm Turnbull in such glowing terms.
He, as the opposition spokesman on broadband has told more lies than tony Abbott and Pyne put together.
The man is an arch conservative who has zero credibility.
Just search for NBN and broadband on this site to see the amount of rubbish he has talked.
And this morning on Insiders we had Gerrard Henderson suggesting that PM Gillard should have publically accepted the Jones apology. Henderson then explained that High Court Judge Michael Kirby was able to accept the apology of Senator Heffernan.
Henderson was in fact attacking the PM by saying that the offence to Kirby was greater than the PM so she ‘should’ accept Jones’ apology.
Once again attack the PM by claiming Jones in some sort of way is a victim.
With reference to Alan Jones’ ignominious crudity at a Sydney University Young Liberals function, Gerard Henderson has declared on Insiders that the incident “has gone on for just too long, I mean, It’s got to stop at some stage”.
Of course he would say that because it is damaging the Liberal party. Now, if it were on the other foot Henderson would be putting his boot in and I doubt Cassidy could have shut him up this morning or for many days to come.
Cassidy and his cronies take great pleasure rubbishing our Great Govt the best in our history but hates it when the actual people attack his liberal mates on social media.
Go all you social cats keep on telling the truth people power will over come, bastards trying to buy a new liberal govt into power for themselves.
Now that’s the truth.
Margie Abbott: ‘These attacks are wrong’. Does she not think that the constant attacks against the Prime Minister aren’t ‘wrong’? If Julia Gillard can stay strong through these attacks, surely Tony Abbott can be tough enough to withstand the lesser ‘attacks’, without having to call in his wife and daughters for back-up? There is a big difference between constantly calling someone a liar (which Julia Gillard is not) to being labelled as ‘someone who has a problem with capable women’, of which he has shown ample evidence…
When will Tony Abbott actually “man up” and face the media in real interviews. He can explain himself to the Australian people, his views on women in power positions, what he believes in, what he will do in government, what the LNP policies are. Until he does that all I now see is a bully hiding behind his wifes skirts.
yeah don’t worry cracker, while turnbull might not be a standfast conservative i don’t doubt that he’s a “trickle down” liberal, a concept which IA has elsewhere demolished and i heartily disdain. he seems capable of dealing with though, rather than full of no.
10,000 years ago it was the physically strong (and cruelest) that dominated, now it’s the financially clever (and greediest). one day we’ll be successful AND inclusive, then we’ll see 1000 flowers bloom (or w/e that saying is).
Conservatives believe that the majority live to serve them, as their core policy the “slave & master” rule. They have the mentality of we are better than many and so we have the right to rule and so we don’t need to answer to no one just like a Communist regime! Problem is, it is we the voters that allow Conservatives to rule!
a couple of relationships with women while at university but then joined a seminary. says it all really